206pp., paperback, Reprint, Cape Town, (2021) 2022
"... a gripping read about relational trauma, of what happens to the sense of self when living with physical and psychological violence over time ... Boiling a Frog Slowly is an exercise in working with memory to relive and process the horrors of what happened ... It paints a visceral picture of what happens when someone gradually starts to make you doubt yourself, to question who you are. ... The book is an essential read for understanding the gender-based violence so endemic in our society." Joy Watson, Daily Maverick